So one of my favorite stories/ demo’s I used to do for my new students was that of the “Big Rocks”
I would bring in a large glass vase and then I would place big rocks in it and ask if the vase was full…
Most would say yes.
I would then pour in small rocks and then ask again if it was full. Some would say yes
I would then pour in sand and ask if it was full. By then most had caught on and would say no.
And then I would pour in water…
I called it a lesson in priorities. So long as you figure out what your “large rocks” are in life you can fit most stuff in around those “large rocks.” Just remember to put your large rocks in first like family, children, school, work etc.
I think the hardest part for me personally in regards to that lesson is the huge wealth I am surrounded in in regards to opportunity costs. I can’t help but look at the other large rocks – I took out and placed on the ground.
So many things I can choose to do with my time. And every time I choose to do something. I am choosing NOT to do a ton of other things.
I am at a standoff in regards to the social media world. Email, twitter, facebook – these should all be sand filling around my big rocks. And they are not. Instead processing them have been big rocks in my day. Mainly because of communication issues and others’ demand on my time.
I think what is missing most is an ability to truly prioritize and to accept losses when I do miss emails, texts, direct messages on twitter etc. The biggest opportunity loss is the fact I do not want to prioritize on open government anymore – sunlight is doing fine in that arena. Instead, I want to do Open Banking. It is all I think about. (ok maybe a few other idea pop up but it is sticky!) SO I have traded Big Rocks. And that means having to dump out all the others and re-sort…
I need to focus on how to make Open Banking happen.